G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta defalarca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli olgulardan biridir.
Ba\u015far\u0131 veya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k. Peki bu iki olgunun olu\u015fmas\u0131 halinde verdi\u011fimiz reaksiyonlar neler? Siz bu iki durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda nas\u0131l tepkiler veriyorsunuz?
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Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda insanlar iki temel tepki vermektedir: \u00e7aresizlik ve ustal\u0131k seviyesinde odak.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k kimi insanlar i\u00e7in bir geri \u00e7ekilme hali yarat\u0131rken kimi bunu bir geli\u015fim s\u00fcreci olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Peki nedir bu iki zihin yap\u0131s\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki fark? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7aresizlik odakl\u0131 tepki, sabit zihniyete sahip bireylerin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi bir reaksiyondur. Bu insanlar i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmak yeteneksiz olmakla e\u015f de\u011ferdir. “Bu konuda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldum, demek ki ben zaten bu i\u015fte yetenekli de\u011filim\u201d <\/em>diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler ve sonu\u00e7 olarak vazge\u00e7me ihtimalleri fazlad\u0131r. Dweck bu tepkinin, ki\u015filerin zek\u00e2 ve yeteneklerinin de\u011fi\u015ftirilemez oldu\u011funa inanmas\u0131ndan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtiyor. B\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler kendilerini geli\u015ftirmenin ya da hatalar\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011frenmenin m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00d6te yandan, ustal\u0131k odakl\u0131 tepki ise geli\u015fim zihniyetine sahip olanlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k an\u0131nda sergiledi\u011fi bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. Bu ki\u015filer ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bir \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. Tabi ki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmak kimse i\u00e7in keyifli de\u011fildir. Buradaki fark bunun de\u011fi\u015febilece\u011fine olan inan\u00e7t\u0131r. “Bu sefer olmad\u0131 ama neyi yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 anlay\u0131p bir sonraki denemede daha iyisini yapabilirim,” <\/em>diyerek, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir basamak olarak kullan\u0131rlar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Peki nereden ba\u015flamal\u0131? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ebeveynlerin ve \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131kla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma becerilerini nas\u0131l \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi, burada kilit noktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar, \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131n sonucunun \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu ve yeteneklerinin de\u011fi\u015ftirilebilir oldu\u011fu fikriyle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcld\u00fcklerinde zorluklarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in daha diren\u00e7li hale gelirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0131saca ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k tek ba\u015f\u0131na motive edici veya y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fey de\u011fildir, as\u0131l \u00f6nemli olan, ona verilen tepkidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fczel bir g\u00fcn dilerim. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta defalarca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli olgulardan biridir. Ba\u015far\u0131 veya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k. Peki bu iki olgunun olu\u015fmas\u0131 halinde verdi\u011fimiz reaksiyonlar…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1407,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1406","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1406","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1406"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1406\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1408,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1406\/revisions\/1408"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1407"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}