Haz\u0131r Ramazan ay\u0131, bu vesile ile ak\u0131\u015fta kalmak, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00fcrekli kontrol alt\u0131nda tutma \u00e7abam\u0131z\u0131n bazen bizi nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve hayat\u0131n bize sunduklar\u0131 \u00fczerine bir yaz\u0131 kaleme almak istedim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015eems-i Tebrizi\u2019nin \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc geldi akl\u0131ma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNe korkuyorsun hayat\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne gelecek diye? Nereden biliyorsun hayat\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Muhte\u015fem bir s\u00f6z de\u011fil mi? S\u00f6z, belirsizlikler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda duydu\u011fumuz korkulara ve de\u011fi\u015fimin getirebilece\u011fi beklenmedik g\u00fczelliklere dair derin bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct i\u00e7eriyor. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda her \u015fey yolunda giderken, ani bir de\u011fi\u015fiklikle d\u00fczenimizin bozulmas\u0131ndan korkar\u0131z. Ancak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, alt\u00fcst olan hayat\u0131m\u0131z bizi daha iyi bir noktaya ta\u015f\u0131r. Sanki bu muhte\u015fem ahengin ve zerafetin tad\u0131na varmak ve ak\u0131\u015ftaki mutlulu\u011fu yakalamak i\u00e7in biraz sab\u0131r gerekiyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tam bu noktada Mevlana Hazretlerinin \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir s\u00f6z\u00fc geliyor akl\u0131ma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir g\u00fcn gelir,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u00e7maz dedi\u011fin \u00e7i\u00e7ekler a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gitmez dedi\u011fin dertler gider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bitmez dedi\u011fin zaman ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat \u00f6yle bir s\u0131r ki ;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6nce \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sonra sab\u0131r,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sonra da inanmak gerek..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7o\u011fu zaman, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olaylar\u0131 \u015fekillendiremeyiz ama onlara verdi\u011fimiz tepkiyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz. Bu y\u00fczden, de\u011fi\u015fime kar\u015f\u0131 direnmek yerine, onun i\u00e7inde bir anlam aramak ve yeni f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat bir denge, bu dengeye \u00e7o\u011fu zaman m\u00fcdahale ederek de\u011fi\u015ftiremedimiz \u015feyler oldu\u011fu gibi, bazen de de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba verdi\u011fimiz \u015feylerin belki de bizim i\u00e7in iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi var. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015eems-i Tebrizi\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, asl\u0131nda bize \u00e7ok basit ama derin bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor: Hayat\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ancak ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a anlar\u0131z. De\u011fi\u015fim, ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r ve bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmlerimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu y\u00fczden, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z krizleri bir son olarak g\u00f6rmek yerine, yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olarak kabul etmek belki de hayat\u0131m\u0131zda yapabilece\u011fimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck devrimdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Haz\u0131r Ramazan ay\u0131, bu vesile ile ak\u0131\u015fta kalmak, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00fcrekli kontrol alt\u0131nda tutma \u00e7abam\u0131z\u0131n bazen bizi nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve hayat\u0131n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1572,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1571"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1573,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571\/revisions\/1573"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}