Ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011funun, ne kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n veya ne kadar iyi oldu\u011funun bir \u00f6nemi yok. Hayat, herkesi bir noktada k\u0131rar. As\u0131l soru \u015fu;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ne yapacaks\u0131n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00fc\u015fmek ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ihanet veya kay\u0131plar\u2026 Hepimiz bir noktada savunmas\u0131z kal\u0131r\u0131z. Ancak, insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yapan \u015fey, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda nas\u0131l aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen k\u0131r\u0131lmak, biti\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. G\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz, yetersiz ve t\u00fckenmi\u015f hissedebilirsin. Ama asl\u0131nda bu, yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 yapman i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsatt\u0131r. Bir cam k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu eski haline d\u00f6nd\u00fcremezsin ama ondan yeni bir sanat eseri yaratabilirsin. Japonlar\u0131n kintsugi<\/em> sanat\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi, k\u0131r\u0131lan par\u00e7alar alt\u0131nla birle\u015ftirilir ve eskisinden daha de\u011ferli hale gelir. K\u0131r\u0131lman, seni daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve anlaml\u0131 bir hale getirebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aya\u011fa Kalkmak \u0130\u00e7in 3 Ad\u0131m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kabul Et:<\/strong> K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 inkar etmek sadece iyile\u015fme s\u00fcrecini geciktirir. Duygular\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rmak yerine, onlar\u0131 kabul et. Ac\u0131n\u0131 ve zay\u0131fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek, onlarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sebebini Anla:<\/strong> Seni neyin k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek, tekrar ayn\u0131 yerden k\u0131r\u0131lmaman i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlidir. Belki beklentilerin \u00e7ok y\u00fcksekti, belki yanl\u0131\u015f insanlara g\u00fcvendin ya da belki de daha haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olman gerekiyordu. Dersini al, ama kendini su\u00e7lamaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yeni Bir Yol Belirle:<\/strong>\u00a0K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n yerden devam etmek yerine, yeni bir yol \u00e7iz. Bazen ayn\u0131 y\u00f6ntemlerle ilerlemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Daha \u00f6nce yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir \u015feyi dene, kendini yeniden in\u015fa et.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131 hikayelerinin \u00e7o\u011fu, b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131r\u0131lmalar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bir\u00e7ok insan en karanl\u0131k anlar\u0131nda, en b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerini ya\u015far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unutma, ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fun de\u011fil, d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde nas\u0131l kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6nemlidir. Ve her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f, yeniden do\u011fman\u0131n bir f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011funun, ne kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n veya ne kadar iyi oldu\u011funun bir \u00f6nemi yok. Hayat, herkesi bir noktada k\u0131rar.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1631"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1631\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1633,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1631\/revisions\/1633"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}