Kim oldu\u011fumuz sorusu, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n en eski sorgulamalar\u0131ndan biridir. Bizi biz yapan \u015fey ne? Do\u011fdu\u011fumuz aile mi, sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z m\u0131, genetik miras\u0131m\u0131z m\u0131, yoksa hayat boyu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z se\u00e7imler mi? \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki t\u00fcm bu etkenler kimli\u011fimizin in\u015fas\u0131nda rol oynar. Ancak zamanla fark ederiz ki, as\u0131l belirleyici olan \u015fey; se\u00e7imlerimizdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat bize bir\u00e7ok \u015fey sunar; baz\u0131lar\u0131 bizim kontrol\u00fcm\u00fczde de\u011fildir. Nerede do\u011fdu\u011fumuz, hangi ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz veya ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelen olaylar\u2026 Ama t\u00fcm bu \u015fartlara ra\u011fmen, nas\u0131l tepki verece\u011fimiz, hangi yolu se\u00e7ece\u011fimiz tamamen bize aittir. Bu anlamda, se\u00e7imlerimiz yaln\u0131zca gelece\u011fimizi de\u011fil, karakterimizi ve kimli\u011fimizi de \u015fekillendirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir insan, zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda pes etmeyi mi yoksa m\u00fccadele etmeyi mi se\u00e7er? Ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in k\u0131sa yollar\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa eme\u011fi mi tercih eder? \u0130yili\u011fi mi, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc m\u00fc se\u00e7er? \u0130\u015fte bu kararlar; ki\u015fili\u011fimizin temel yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her se\u00e7im, bir de\u011fer yarg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ve bu de\u011ferler, kim oldu\u011fumuzu ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elbette ki her zaman do\u011fruyu se\u00e7emeyiz. Hatalar da kimli\u011fimizin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak \u00f6nemli olan, o hatalardan ne \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz ve bir sonraki se\u00e7imimizi neye g\u00f6re yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130nsan olmak; bazen yan\u0131lmak, bazen sorgulamak ve her defas\u0131nda biraz daha kendine yakla\u015fmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimi zaman bir meslek se\u00e7imi, kimi zaman bir dostluk, kimi zamansa sadece \u201csusmak ya da konu\u015fmak\u201d bile bizi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren bir karar olabilir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcnen tercihlerin bile uzun vadede karakterimiz \u00fczerinde derin etkileri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0131sacas\u0131, biz se\u00e7imlerimiziz. Bug\u00fcn verdi\u011fimiz kararlar, yar\u0131n aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6rece\u011fimiz ki\u015fiyi belirler. Bu y\u00fczden her se\u00e7im, yaln\u0131zca bir y\u00f6n de\u011fil, bir kimlik tan\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r. Ve belki de hayat, ard\u0131 ard\u0131na verdi\u011fimiz kararlarla yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015fisel bir kimlik manifestosudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kim oldu\u011fumuz sorusu, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n en eski sorgulamalar\u0131ndan biridir. Bizi biz yapan \u015fey ne? Do\u011fdu\u011fumuz aile mi, sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z m\u0131, genetik…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1676,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1675","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1675"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1675\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1677,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1675\/revisions\/1677"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1676"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1675"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1675"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1675"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}