Bazen d\u00fcnya \u00e7ok g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen sesler, beklentiler, kurallar, yarg\u0131lar, ba\u015far\u0131 tan\u0131mlar\u0131, kulaklar\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7\u0131nlarken, i\u00e7imizdeki o derin ve sade sesi duymakta zorlan\u0131yoruz. Oysa en ger\u00e7ek rehber, hep bizimle olan, ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman susturdu\u011fumuz o i\u00e7 sesimizdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u00e7 ses, kim oldu\u011fumuzu, ne istedi\u011fimizi ve neye ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu bilen yegane kaynak. Ama onu duyabilmek i\u00e7in bazen durmak, sessizle\u015fmek, kendimize alan a\u00e7mak gerekiyor. Kalabal\u0131klar i\u00e7inde kendi sesimizi duyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famaya ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011frular\u0131 bizim y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz oluyor; bu da bizi zamanla kendimizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Peki, i\u00e7 sesini duymak ne demek?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu, d\u0131\u015fsal onaylara ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kalmadan karar vermek demek. Korkular\u0131n y\u00f6netti\u011fi de\u011fil, i\u00e7 huzurun y\u00f6n verdi\u011fi bir ya\u015fam kurmak demek. Bazen herkese ters gelse de \u201cben b\u00f6yle hissediyorum\u201d diyebilmek demek. Cesaret istiyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7 ses \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konfor alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131z\u0131 f\u0131s\u0131ldar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u00e7 sesin en belirgin \u00f6zelli\u011fi \u015fudur: Sessizdir ama \u0131srarl\u0131d\u0131r. Bast\u0131rabilirsin, g\u00f6rmezden gelebilirsin ama o hep oradad\u0131r. Hayat\u0131nda bir \u015feyler ters gidiyorsa, belki de i\u00e7 sesini uzun zamand\u0131r dinlemedi\u011findendir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendine \u015fu soruyu sormay\u0131 dene: \u201cGer\u00e7ekten ne istiyorum?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu soru bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olabilir. Sonras\u0131nda, i\u00e7indeki ses yava\u015f yava\u015f konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. Belki bir karar verirken sana \u201cdur\u201d der. Belki de bir ad\u0131m atarken \u201c\u015fimdi tam zaman\u0131\u201d diye f\u0131s\u0131ldar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutma, en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kararlar; d\u0131\u015f seslerin de\u011fil, i\u00e7 huzurun e\u015flik etti\u011fi kararlard\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7 sesini dinlemek, kendinle bar\u0131\u015fmak demektir. Ve en sonunda, bu d\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yol sana ait oldu\u011funda, i\u015fte o zaman ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015famaya<\/em> ba\u015flars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bazen d\u00fcnya \u00e7ok g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen sesler, beklentiler, kurallar, yarg\u0131lar, ba\u015far\u0131 tan\u0131mlar\u0131, kulaklar\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7\u0131nlarken, i\u00e7imizdeki o derin ve sade sesi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1693,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1692"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1692\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1694,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1692\/revisions\/1694"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}