Hayat, her zaman d\u00fcz bir \u00e7izgide ilerlemez. Bazen t\u00fcm \u00e7abalar\u0131m\u0131za ra\u011fmen i\u015fler yolunda gitmez. G\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz da\u011flar y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r, planlar\u0131m\u0131z alt\u00fcst olur, elimizde kalan tek \u015fey kendimiz oluruz. \u0130\u015fte o an, hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, as\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm de tam orada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zor zamanlar hepimiz i\u00e7in farkl\u0131d\u0131r: Bir kay\u0131p, bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k, bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, bir hastal\u0131k\u2026 Ama ortak olan bir \u015fey vard\u0131r; o da bu zamanlar\u0131n insan\u0131 ya y\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da yeniden \u015fekillendirdi\u011fidir. Kimi bu f\u0131rt\u0131nan\u0131n i\u00e7inde savrulurken yorulur, kimi ise bu f\u0131rt\u0131nadan sonra i\u00e7indeki ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcc\u00fc ke\u015ffeder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Asl\u0131nda ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fanlarda ya da s\u00fcrekli kazananlarda de\u011fildir. Ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, en sessiz anlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Aya\u011fa kalkmaya mecbur olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n halde kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026 Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin d\u00fczelmeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn anda sabretmeyi se\u00e7ti\u011finde\u2026 Ya da herkesin da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde sen h\u00e2l\u00e2 kendini bir arada tutabildi\u011finde\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bizi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yapan \u015fey, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za verdi\u011fimiz tepkidir. Her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f, bir \u00f6\u011frenmedir. Her kay\u0131p, bir yeniden in\u015fa f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r. Zor zamanlar, seni zay\u0131flatmaz; seni durula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Sana neyin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, kimlerin ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funu, neyin pe\u015finden gitmeye de\u011fer oldu\u011funu f\u0131s\u0131ldar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen bir g\u00fcn gelir ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakars\u0131n. O en karanl\u0131k g\u00fcnlerinde nas\u0131l da ayakta kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nas\u0131l da o y\u00fcklerin alt\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kabildi\u011fini hat\u0131rlars\u0131n. O zaman anlars\u0131n: G\u00fc\u00e7, hep i\u00e7indeydi. Ama seni bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in hayat\u0131n seni biraz zorlamas\u0131 gerekmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015eimdi sana soruyorum: E\u011fer bug\u00fcn zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7iyorsan, bu s\u00fcreci sadece bir son gibi mi g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun, yoksa belki de yeni bir senin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 olabilir mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutma; en sa\u011flam a\u011fa\u00e7lar en sert r\u00fczg\u00e2rda yeti\u015fir. Sen de, belki \u015fu an fark\u0131nda de\u011filsin ama, g\u00fc\u00e7leniyorsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat, her zaman d\u00fcz bir \u00e7izgide ilerlemez. Bazen t\u00fcm \u00e7abalar\u0131m\u0131za ra\u011fmen i\u015fler yolunda gitmez. G\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz da\u011flar y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r, planlar\u0131m\u0131z alt\u00fcst olur,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1810,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1809","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1809"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1809\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1811,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1809\/revisions\/1811"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1810"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}