Hayatta kim oldu\u011fumuzun cevab\u0131; sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenlerde ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen etiketlerde de\u011fil\u2026 Verdi\u011fimiz kararlardad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her g\u00fcn, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya da b\u00fcy\u00fck binlerce karar al\u0131yoruz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sabah ka\u00e7ta uyanaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan, kime nas\u0131l davranaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, hangi yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fimizden, neye sessiz kal\u0131p neye kar\u015f\u0131 duraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za kadar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte bu kararlar zamanla bizi biz yapan bir haritaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen \u201cBen b\u00f6yleyim,\u201d deriz. Ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman o \u201cben\u201d, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f onlarca karar\u0131n toplam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki bir g\u00fcn susmay\u0131 se\u00e7tik\u2026 ve o g\u00fcn, kimli\u011fimize bir sessizlik eklendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki birini affettik\u2026 ve o affedi\u015f, bizi b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ya da bir d\u00f6neme\u00e7te \u201cHay\u0131r\u201d demeyi se\u00e7tik\u2026 ve o cesaretle s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7izdik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck bir i\u015f teklifini geri \u00e7evirmek, herkesi memnun etmek yerine kendi do\u011frunu savunmak, bir ili\u015fkiyi bitirmek ya da bir hatadan geri d\u00f6nmek\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu kararlar kolay de\u011fildir. Ama tam da bu anlar kimli\u011fimizin en belirleyici yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc se\u00e7imlerimiz sadece gelece\u011fimizi de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda nas\u0131l biri oldu\u011fumuzu g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kararlar\u0131m\u0131z, i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa vurumudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cesaret mi, korku mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Empati mi, \u00f6fke mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sadakat mi, konfor mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her se\u00e7im, bir duru\u015f sergiler. Ve zamanla bu duru\u015f, karakterimize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimi zaman hayattan \u015fikayet ederiz: \u201cNeden hep ben?\u201d diye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa durup bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, \u015fu anda bulundu\u011fumuz yer b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kendi se\u00e7imlerimizin sonucudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey de\u011fil. Aksine, de\u011fi\u015fim i\u00e7in en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sorumlulu\u011fu ba\u015fkas\u0131nda de\u011fil, kendimizde aramak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn kim oldu\u011fumuz, d\u00fcn verdi\u011fimiz kararlar\u0131n yans\u0131mas\u0131ysa;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yar\u0131n kim olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z da bug\u00fcnk\u00fc se\u00e7imlerimizde sakl\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayatta kim oldu\u011fumuzun cevab\u0131; sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenlerde ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen etiketlerde de\u011fil\u2026 Verdi\u011fimiz kararlardad\u0131r. Her g\u00fcn, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1861,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1860","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1860"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1860\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1862,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1860\/revisions\/1862"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1861"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1860"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1860"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1860"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}