Hayatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bize \u00f6\u011fretilen, g\u00f6sterilen ya da al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z pencereden bakar\u0131z. O pencere ne kadar geni\u015f olursa olsun, bir noktadan sonra tek y\u00f6nl\u00fc bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. \u0130\u015fte tam bu noktada \u201cbir ba\u015fka a\u00e7\u0131dan\u201d bakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek zenginli\u011fini ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn birlikte bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131za yeniden y\u00f6n vermeye ne dersiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir olay ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, genellikle kendi bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131zla hemen bir yarg\u0131ya var\u0131r\u0131z. Birinin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f buluruz, bir habere \u00f6fkeleniriz, i\u015f yerinde al\u0131nan karar\u0131 ele\u015ftiririz. Fakat olaylar\u0131 ba\u015fka bir a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fimizde, o davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ard\u0131nda bir korku, o karar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda bir zorunluluk, o haberin sat\u0131r aralar\u0131nda bamba\u015fka bir ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funu fark edebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBir ba\u015fka a\u00e7\u0131dan bakmak\u201d yaln\u0131zca ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc art\u0131rmaz; ayn\u0131 zamanda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da geni\u015fletir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tek bir do\u011fru yoktur, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ayn\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fin farkl\u0131 yans\u0131malar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bir lider i\u00e7in cesaret, bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan i\u00e7in bask\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelebilir. Bir aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in koruma i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fc, gen\u00e7 bir birey i\u00e7in \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn k\u0131s\u0131tlanmas\u0131 olabilir. Ayn\u0131 tabloya bakar\u0131z ama herkesin g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc renkler farkl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat herkesin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde ba\u015fka renklenir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn h\u0131zl\u0131 t\u00fcketilen bilgi d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda en de\u011ferli becerilerden biri, olaylara \u00e7ok boyutlu yakla\u015fabilmektir. Bu hem i\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131nda hem de ki\u015fisel ili\u015fkilerimizde bize derinlik kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Bir ba\u015fka a\u00e7\u0131dan bakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenen ki\u015fi, sadece \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda umut da \u00fcretir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de bug\u00fcn kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen \u015fu an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m olaya, ili\u015fkiye, i\u015fe veya hayata farkl\u0131 bir a\u00e7\u0131dan bakabilsem ne g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcm?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cevap bazen \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131, bazen de \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen tek ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan \u015fey, ayn\u0131 manzaray\u0131 bir ba\u015fka a\u00e7\u0131dan<\/strong> seyretmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hayatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bize \u00f6\u011fretilen, g\u00f6sterilen ya da al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z pencereden bakar\u0131z. O pencere ne kadar geni\u015f olursa olsun, bir noktadan…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1924,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1923"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1923\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1925,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1923\/revisions\/1925"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}