Hayat, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir tiyatro sahnesine benzetilir. Kimimiz ba\u015frol oynar, kimimiz ise kendimizi fark\u0131nda olmadan fig\u00fcran rol\u00fcnde buluruz.
As\u0131l mesele \u015fudur, oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z rol bize mi ait, yoksa ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir senaryonun k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir par\u00e7as\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocukluktan itibaren ailemiz, \u00f6\u011fretmenlerimiz, toplumun de\u011ferleri ve \u00e7evremiz bize nas\u0131l ya\u015famam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini f\u0131s\u0131ldar. Hangi okulu se\u00e7memiz gerekti\u011fini, hangi mesle\u011fin \u201cg\u00fcvenli\u201d oldu\u011funu, nas\u0131l biriyle evlenmemizin uygun olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Bu y\u00f6nlendirmeler bazen yol g\u00f6sterici olsa da \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizi kendi hayallerimizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Fark\u0131na varmadan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sahnede, onlar\u0131n beklentilerine uygun bir rol\u00fc oynamaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa hayat tek bir defa sahnelenir. Tekrar\u0131 yoktur. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n senaryosunda fig\u00fcran olmay\u0131 se\u00e7mek, kendi hikayemizin ba\u015frol\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmek demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendi yolunu \u00e7izmek cesaret ister. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc toplumun beklentilerine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak, g\u00fcvenli limandan ayr\u0131lmak kolay de\u011fildir. Ancak ger\u00e7ek tatmin, kendi se\u00e7imlerini yapmaktan ve kendi yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n senaryoda ya\u015famaktan gelir. Ba\u015far\u0131 da mutluluk da d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan onay aramakla de\u011fil, i\u00e7ten gelen bir \u201cdo\u011fru yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcyorum\u201d duygusuyla ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutma: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 senaryoda ne kadar iyi oynarsan oyna, sonunda alk\u0131\u015flar sana de\u011fil, o senaryonun yazar\u0131na aittir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n sahnesinde kendin i\u00e7in yaz, kendin i\u00e7in oyna. Ba\u015frol\u00fcn\u00fc kimseye b\u0131rakma.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir tiyatro sahnesine benzetilir. Kimimiz ba\u015frol oynar, kimimiz ise kendimizi fark\u0131nda olmadan fig\u00fcran rol\u00fcnde buluruz. As\u0131l mesele…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2009,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2008"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2010,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008\/revisions\/2010"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2009"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}