Ba\u015far\u0131\u2026 \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca belki de en \u00e7ok pe\u015finden ko\u015fulan kavram. Ama sorulmas\u0131 gereken as\u0131l soru \u015fudur: Ba\u015far\u0131 kimin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde ba\u015far\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toplum bize ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 genellikle d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclen kriterlerle tan\u0131mlar: \u0130yi bir i\u015f, y\u00fcksek maa\u015f, prestijli bir unvan, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ev, dikkat \u00e7eken bir araba\u2026 Bu g\u00f6stergeler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015far\u0131 diye alk\u0131\u015flan\u0131r. Fakat bunlar\u0131n ne kadar\u0131 bizim i\u00e7imizde ger\u00e7ek bir tatmin duygusu yarat\u0131yor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7o\u011fu insan, hayat\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcndeki takdir i\u00e7in \u015fekillendirir. \u201cAferin\u201d almak, onaylanmak, k\u0131yasland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00f6nde g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in ya\u015far. Ama bir noktadan sonra \u015fu ger\u00e7ekle y\u00fczle\u015fir: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcndeki ba\u015far\u0131, i\u00e7imizdeki huzuru garanti etmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, rakamlardan ve unvanlardan \u00e7ok daha \u00f6te bir \u015feydir. Kendi de\u011ferlerine sad\u0131k kalarak ya\u015famak, sabah uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrle g\u00fcne ba\u015flayabilmek, hayat\u0131na anlam katan i\u015flerle u\u011fra\u015fmak, sevdiklerine dokunabilmek\u2026 \u0130\u015fte bunlar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez ama derinden hissedilen ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6stergeleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toplumsal beklentiler, elbette ki \u00f6nemlidir. Ama hayat\u0131n sonunda kendimize sordu\u011fumuz soru \u015fu olur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n istedi\u011fi hayat\u0131 m\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131m, yoksa kendi yolumda y\u00fcr\u00fcyebildim mi?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, bir alk\u0131\u015f\u0131n ard\u0131ndan gelen ge\u00e7ici bir gurur de\u011fil; i\u00e7imizde sessizce b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir tatmin duygusudur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015far\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde de\u011fil, senin y\u00fcre\u011finde anlam bulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ba\u015far\u0131\u2026 \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca belki de en \u00e7ok pe\u015finden ko\u015fulan kavram. Ama sorulmas\u0131 gereken as\u0131l soru \u015fudur: Ba\u015far\u0131 kimin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2015,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2014"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2016,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014\/revisions\/2016"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}