Hayatta kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan her olay\u0131n, her insan\u0131n, her f\u0131rsat\u0131n bir nedeni var m\u0131? Yoksa t\u00fcm bunlar sadece rastlant\u0131lar\u0131n bir oyunu mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu soru, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n en eski meraklar\u0131ndan biri. Kimi \u201ckader\u201d der, kimi \u201c\u015fans\u201d, kimi ise \u201cse\u00e7imlerin toplam\u0131.\u201d Ama belki de ger\u00e7ek, hepsinin birbiriyle i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7ti\u011fi o ince \u00e7izgide sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131 genellikle bir anda belirir gibi olur. Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, o \u201ctesad\u00fcf\u201d sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama anlaml\u0131 se\u00e7imler yatar. Bir yere gitmeye karar vermemiz, biriyle konu\u015fmay\u0131 se\u00e7memiz, bir f\u0131rsat\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmemiz ya da bir kap\u0131y\u0131 kapatmam\u0131z\u2026 Hepsi zincirin bir halkas\u0131 gibidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tesad\u00fcfler, sadece haz\u0131r olanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131na dokunur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Haz\u0131rl\u0131ks\u0131z birine \u015fans kap\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda o kap\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman duyulmaz. Ama kendi yolunu arayan, d\u00fc\u015fse bile yeniden kalkan, her deneyimden \u00f6\u011frenen biri i\u00e7in \u201ctesad\u00fcf\u201d asl\u0131nda \u201chaz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bulu\u015ftu\u011fu an\u201dd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Se\u00e7imlerimiz, hayat\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc belirler; tesad\u00fcfler ise bazen o y\u00f6n\u00fc h\u0131zland\u0131r\u0131r. Ancak unutulmamas\u0131 gereken \u015fey \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her se\u00e7im, bir di\u011fer olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 geride b\u0131rak\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bug\u00fcn bulundu\u011fumuz yer, bir anlamda d\u00fcn verdi\u011fimiz kararlar\u0131n sonucudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de as\u0131l mesele, hayatta her \u015feyin bizim elimizde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamak de\u011fil; ne kadar\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7le se\u00e7ti\u011fimizi fark etmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kaderini de\u011fi\u015ftirmesinde de\u011fil \u2014 onu nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na karar vermesindedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sonu\u00e7ta, hayat ne tamamen tesad\u00fcflerden ibaret bir oyun, ne de tamamen bizim \u00e7izdi\u011fimiz bir plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama kesin olan \u015fu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her tesad\u00fcf, bir se\u00e7imin yank\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayatta kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan her olay\u0131n, her insan\u0131n, her f\u0131rsat\u0131n bir nedeni var m\u0131? Yoksa t\u00fcm bunlar sadece rastlant\u0131lar\u0131n bir oyunu…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2031,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2030","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2030"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2032,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2030\/revisions\/2032"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2030"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2030"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2030"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}