Hayat, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir sonraki ad\u0131m\u0131n plan\u0131n\u0131 yaparken ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlardan olu\u015fur. Takvimler dolu, hedefler net, yap\u0131lacaklar listesi sonsuz\u2026 Ama ya o \u201c\u015fimdi\u201d dedi\u011fimiz anlar? Ya planlar\u0131n aras\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131\u015fan, g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7an o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck mutluluklar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan\u0131n kendini g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fi bir alan vard\u0131r: plan yapmak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc plan, belirsizli\u011fi kontrol alt\u0131na alman\u0131n bir yolu gibidir. Oysa ya\u015fam, hi\u00e7bir zaman tamamen kontrol alt\u0131na al\u0131nmaz. Ne kadar planlarsak planlayal\u0131m, hayat kendi ritmini s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr; bazen y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftirir, bazen durur, bazen de hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fimiz yerden yeniden ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de bu y\u00fczden, \u201cher \u015fey planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi gitmedi\u201d dedi\u011fimiz anlar asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131n bize bir mesaj\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cB\u0131rak biraz ak\u0131\u015fta kal.\u201d \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, sadece gelece\u011fe haz\u0131rlanmakla de\u011fil, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fun ana tan\u0131kl\u0131k etmekle anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz, \u201cbir g\u00fcn\u201d diyerek erteleriz: Bir g\u00fcn tatile \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131m, bir g\u00fcn rahatlayaca\u011f\u0131m, bir g\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekten mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m\u2026 Ama o \u201cbir g\u00fcn\u201d hi\u00e7bir zaman gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam, planlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tamamlanmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemez. O, bizimle birlikte akar, de\u011fi\u015fir, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elbette plan yapmak k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fildir; hedefler insan\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirir, disipline eder. Ancak, plan\u0131n seni ya\u015fama de\u011fil, ya\u015fam\u0131n seni plana mahkum etti\u011fi noktada bir \u015feyler ters gitmeye ba\u015flar. Ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, planl\u0131 ya\u015farken spontane olabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n en g\u00fczel s\u00fcrprizleri, plan d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalan yerlerde gizlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve belki de en do\u011fru plan; bazen hi\u00e7bir plan yapmadan, sadece var olmaya izin vermektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir sonraki ad\u0131m\u0131n plan\u0131n\u0131 yaparken ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlardan olu\u015fur. Takvimler dolu, hedefler net, yap\u0131lacaklar listesi sonsuz\u2026 Ama…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2078,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2077","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2077"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2079,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077\/revisions\/2079"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2077"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2077"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2077"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}