{"id":2121,"date":"2025-11-13T18:28:44","date_gmt":"2025-11-13T18:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/?p=2121"},"modified":"2025-11-13T18:28:44","modified_gmt":"2025-11-13T18:28:44","slug":"disariyi-birak-senin-olana-bak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/13\/disariyi-birak-senin-olana-bak\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u0131\u015far\u0131y\u0131 B\u0131rak, Senin Olana Bak"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olup bitenler g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc o kadar kolay al\u0131yor ki, kendi i\u00e7imize d\u00f6nmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman unutuluyor. Sosyal medyada arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n seyahat foto\u011fraflar\u0131na, i\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131na, tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n parlak hayatlar\u0131na bakt\u0131k\u00e7a, sanki kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z eksik kal\u0131yor gibi hissediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; elinizde zaten s\u0131cak bir fincan kahve var ama kafan\u0131z hep ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n elinde tuttu\u011fu parlak kupalara tak\u0131l\u0131. Oysa kahvenizin tad\u0131, kupan\u0131n parlakl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemli. D\u0131\u015far\u0131ya bakmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p kendi kahvenizin kokusunu, tad\u0131n\u0131 almaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ger\u00e7ek huzuru ke\u015ffedebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>D\u0131\u015far\u0131y\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p, senin olana bakmak demek;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 Sahip olduklar\u0131nla bar\u0131\u015fmak, onlar\u0131 kabul etmek ve de\u011fer vermek demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 Kendi yeteneklerine, hayallerine ve hedeflerine odaklanmak demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131na de\u011fil, kendi ritmine uygun ilerlemek demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 \u0130\u00e7 huzuru bulmak ve kendinle dost olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elbette d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemek, \u00f6\u011frenmek ve ilham almak \u00f6nemli. Ancak orada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz her \u015fey, bizim mutlulu\u011fumuzun veya de\u011ferimizin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc olamaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkesin hayat sahnesi farkl\u0131; perde arkas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131, m\u00fccadeleleri ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 farkl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Senin yolun, senin hikayen. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7izdi\u011fi yolda de\u011fil, kendi kalbinin rehberli\u011finde y\u00fcr\u00fcmek en k\u0131ymetlisidir. Bu y\u00fczden gelin d\u0131\u015far\u0131y\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p, i\u00e7imize d\u00f6nelim. Kendi olan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kucaklayal\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek mutluluk, d\u0131\u015far\u0131da aramakla de\u011fil, i\u00e7eride ke\u015ffetmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olup bitenler g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc o kadar kolay al\u0131yor ki, kendi i\u00e7imize d\u00f6nmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman unutuluyor. Sosyal medyada arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2122,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2121"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2121\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2123,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2121\/revisions\/2123"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2122"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}