Hayat, herkes i\u00e7in zaman zaman kolay, zaman zaman da sert bir \u00f6\u011fretmendir. Mutlu, keyifli ve d\u00fczenli g\u00fcnlerde g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek kolayd\u0131r. As\u0131l mesele; f\u0131rt\u0131nan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda, belirsizliklerin i\u00e7inde, her \u015fey \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00fcst\u00fcne gelirken dimdik durabilmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, rahat g\u00fcnlerde de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendini en \u00e7aresiz hissetti\u011fi anlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zor zamanlar, karakterin test edildi\u011fi d\u00f6nemlerdir. Bu test, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman plans\u0131z gelir; haz\u0131rl\u0131ks\u0131z yakalan\u0131rs\u0131n. Kalbin s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r, zihnin yorulur, bedenin t\u00fckenir. Ama i\u015fte tam o noktada bir se\u00e7im yapars\u0131n: Ya pes edersin ya da kendini yeniden aya\u011fa kald\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve aya\u011fa kalkabilenler, genelde en sessiz g\u00f6r\u00fcnenlerdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7, ba\u011f\u0131rarak de\u011fil; sab\u0131rla, istikrarla, kararl\u0131l\u0131kla kendini g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlar;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Her f\u0131rt\u0131nada kendini de\u011fil, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc arar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Olumsuzluklara de\u011fil, olas\u0131l\u0131klara odaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Yere d\u00fc\u015fse bile orada kalmaz; kalkmak i\u00e7in bir sebep bulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Kendini t\u00fcketen de\u011fil, kendini toparlayan insanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Onlar\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131, pes etmeyi hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemeleri de\u011fildir. Tam aksine, y\u00fczlerce kez pes etmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri h\u00e2lde, tek bir kez daha denemeyi se\u00e7meleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirler ki; zor g\u00fcnler ge\u00e7icidir ama zor g\u00fcnlerde g\u00f6sterilen duru\u015f, insan\u0131n kaderini de\u011fi\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayatta herkes g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek ister. Ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmak, yaln\u0131zca zor zamanlarda m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ac\u0131n\u0131n, bask\u0131n\u0131n, belirsizli\u011fin i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ebilen; sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6netebilen; korkular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e kabul edip yine de ad\u0131m atabilen ki\u015fi\u2026 Ger\u00e7ek anlamda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve unutma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zorluk, seni k\u0131rmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil; seni bir sonraki versiyonuna haz\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in kar\u015f\u0131nda duruyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki hemen fark etmiyorsun ama her kriz, i\u00e7inde g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir f\u0131rsat ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her ac\u0131, seni olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her yoku\u015f, g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve sen, geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda en karanl\u0131k g\u00fcnlerinin asl\u0131nda seni en \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fcten g\u00fcnler oldu\u011funu anlars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat, herkes i\u00e7in zaman zaman kolay, zaman zaman da sert bir \u00f6\u011fretmendir. Mutlu, keyifli ve d\u00fczenli g\u00fcnlerde g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek kolayd\u0131r.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2191,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2190"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2192,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190\/revisions\/2192"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}