\u201cBeni \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyen \u015fey g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Friedrich Nietzsche<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu pazar Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde romantik c\u00fcmleler kurmayaca\u011f\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat da romantik davranm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nietzsche\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. Bu s\u00f6z, ac\u0131y\u0131 y\u00fcceltmiyor. Kimseye \u201cac\u0131 \u00e7ek, iyi gelir\u201d demiyor. S\u00f6ylenen \u015fey \u00e7ok daha net:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat herkese e\u015fit davranmaz ama ya\u015fanan her zorluk, do\u011fru okunursa bir g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yapan konfor de\u011fil, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerlerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerlerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yaln\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 gecelerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan en \u00e7ok, \u201cart\u0131k dayanamam\u201d dedi\u011fi yerden sonra de\u011fi\u015fir. Zorluk, insan\u0131 ya da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r ya da d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Aradaki fark, ya\u015fanan\u0131 nas\u0131l anlamland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 kimli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBana bunu yapt\u0131lar\u201d der ve orada kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleyi \u015f\u00f6yle kurar:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBunlar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131m ama buraday\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte g\u00fc\u00e7 tam olarak burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat kimseyi \u00f6zel se\u00e7ip zorlamaz. Ama baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 daha sert yo\u011furur. O insanlar genelde daha sakin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Daha az konu\u015fur. Daha az \u015fik\u00e2yet eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirler\u2026 Her \u015feyin bedeli vard\u0131r. Ve baz\u0131 dersler pahal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yara izi, zay\u0131fl\u0131k g\u00f6stergesi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015f bir sava\u015f\u0131n kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Atlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir f\u0131rt\u0131nan\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir g\u00fcc\u00fcn i\u015faretidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda seni en \u00e7ok olgunla\u015ft\u0131ran \u015fey ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n de\u011fil, atlatmak zorunda kald\u0131klar\u0131nd\u0131r. O y\u00fczden ya\u015fanan\u0131 ink\u00e2r etmek yerine, i\u00e7indeki g\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00f6rmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nietzsche\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc tam da bunu anlat\u0131yor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seni y\u0131kamayan \u015fey, seni \u015fekillendirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seni bitirmeyen \u015fey, seni derinle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yara izleri, karakterin imzas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cBeni \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyen \u015fey g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.\u201d \u2014 Friedrich Nietzsche Bu pazar Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde romantik c\u00fcmleler kurmayaca\u011f\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat da romantik davranm\u0131yor.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2322,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2321","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2321","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2321"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2321\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2323,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2321\/revisions\/2323"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2322"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2321"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2321"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2321"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}