\u201c\u0130nsanlar maske takar, sonra kendilerini tan\u0131yamaz.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2014 Nietzsche<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve ben bug\u00fcn Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde \u015funu s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rol yaparak ba\u011f kuramazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yorgunlu\u011fu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak de\u011fil, s\u00fcrekli birini oynamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsanlar i\u015fte ba\u015fka, evde ba\u015fka, sosyal medyada ba\u015fka biri oluyor. Her ortama g\u00f6re \u015fekil alan bir karakter\u2026 S\u00fcrekli ayar de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor. S\u00fcrekli \u201cnas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeliyim\u201d hesab\u0131 yap\u0131yor. Ama bir s\u00fcre sonra \u015fu oluyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendi sesi kayboluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nietzsche\u2019nin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi tam olarak bu. Maske ba\u015fta korur gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. \u0130nsan, reddedilmemek i\u00e7in takar. Sevilmek i\u00e7in takar. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in takar. Ama zamanla maske y\u00fcze yap\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve insan bir g\u00fcn aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u015funu fark eder:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen asl\u0131nda kimdim?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsanlar senin m\u00fckemmelli\u011fine de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ekli\u011fine ba\u011flan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rol yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n yerde g\u00fcven olu\u015fmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar sezgisel olarak samimiyetsizli\u011fi hisseder. G\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnle s\u00f6z\u00fcn ayn\u0131 de\u011filse, duru\u015funla anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayat \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcyorsa, orada ba\u011f kurulmaz. Sadece bir g\u00f6steri olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek ba\u011f, kusurlarla kurulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zay\u0131fl\u0131klar\u0131 saklamadan kurulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen buyum\u201d diyebilmekle kurulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 de\u011ferli yapan p\u00fcr\u00fczs\u00fczl\u00fck de\u011fil, insan olu\u015fudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn \u00e7o\u011fu insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015fan\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes bir rol\u00fcn i\u00e7inde. Kimse ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6stermeye cesaret edemiyor. Oysa ba\u011f kurmak istiyoruz ama risk almak istemiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maske takarak g\u00fcven bekleyemezsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rol yaparak samimiyet bulamazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00f6r\u00fcnerek de\u011fil, oldu\u011fun gibi durarak ili\u015fki kurabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nietzsche\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc sert ama ger\u00e7ek:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maske seni korumaz, senden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de bug\u00fcn yap\u0131lacak en b\u00fcy\u00fck cesaret \u015fu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir yerde rol\u00fc b\u0131rakmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir yerde filtresiz konu\u015fmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir yerde ger\u00e7ekten \u201cben\u201d olmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek ba\u011f, g\u00f6steride de\u011fil, \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7ekte kurulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maske ile alk\u0131\u015f al\u0131rs\u0131n. Ama ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcnle ba\u011f kurars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201c\u0130nsanlar maske takar, sonra kendilerini tan\u0131yamaz.\u201d \u2014 Nietzsche Ve ben bug\u00fcn Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde \u015funu s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim: Rol yaparak ba\u011f kuramazs\u0131n.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2334,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2333","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2333","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2333"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2333\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2335,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2333\/revisions\/2335"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2333"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2333"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2333"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}