Samuraylara k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta tek bir \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretilirdi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cK\u0131l\u0131c\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden \u00f6nce kalbini kontrol et.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde biraz bundan konu\u015fal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc modern d\u00fcnyada kimsenin elinde k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 yok ama herkesin dili \u00e7ok keskin. Tepkiler h\u0131zl\u0131, \u00f6fke haz\u0131r, sab\u0131r ise neredeyse l\u00fcks h\u00e2line gelmi\u015f durumda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir mesaj ge\u00e7 geliyor, sinirleniyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir s\u00f6z ho\u015fumuza gitmiyor, hemen kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k veriyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir tart\u0131\u015fmada susmay\u0131 zay\u0131fl\u0131k san\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa samuray \u00f6\u011fretisi tam tersini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek sava\u015f d\u0131\u015far\u0131da de\u011fil, insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7inde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fc\u00e7, ilk tepkiyi vermek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fc\u00e7, o tepkiyi tutabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine de\u011fil, o anki duygusuna sald\u0131r\u0131r. \u00d6fke ge\u00e7ti\u011finde geriye sadece pi\u015fmanl\u0131k kal\u0131r. K\u0131r\u0131lan ili\u015fkiler, s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f s\u00f6zler ve geri al\u0131namayan anlar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Samuraylar k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 kullanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeden \u00f6nce beklemeyi \u00f6\u011frenirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kontrol edilmeyen g\u00fc\u00e7, sahibini de yaralar. Bug\u00fcn hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki bir\u00e7ok k\u0131r\u0131lman\u0131n sebebi de bu de\u011fil mi? D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden verilen tepkiler\u2026 Anl\u0131k gurur u\u011fruna kaybedilen ba\u011flar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sessiz kalmak her zaman geri ad\u0131m de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck h\u00e2kimiyet, kendine h\u00e2kim olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e \u015funu fark ediyor: Her tart\u0131\u015fma kazan\u0131lmak zorunda de\u011fildir. Her s\u00f6ze cevap vermek gerekmez. Her hakl\u0131l\u0131k, huzur getirmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, ne zaman konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek kadar, ne zaman susaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kontrol edemedi\u011fin g\u00fc\u00e7 seni g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yapmaz\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seni y\u00f6netir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve belki de bug\u00fcn kendimize soraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z en do\u011fru soru \u015fu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben olaylar\u0131 m\u0131 y\u00f6netiyorum, yoksa duygular\u0131m m\u0131 beni y\u00f6netiyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck zafer, k\u0131l\u0131c\u0131 hi\u00e7 \u00e7ekmemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Samuraylara k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta tek bir \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretilirdi: \u201cK\u0131l\u0131c\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden \u00f6nce kalbini kontrol et.\u201d Bug\u00fcn Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015fesinde biraz bundan konu\u015fal\u0131m.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2343,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2342","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2342","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2342"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2342\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2344,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2342\/revisions\/2344"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}