{"id":2419,"date":"2026-03-24T19:44:05","date_gmt":"2026-03-24T19:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/?p=2419"},"modified":"2026-03-24T19:44:05","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T19:44:05","slug":"yanilgilarimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/24\/yanilgilarimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7e\u011fi oldu\u011fu gibi de\u011fil, g\u00f6rmek istedi\u011fi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Belki de en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131m\u0131z tam olarak budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antik Yunan\u2019\u0131n en \u00e7ok konu\u015fulan isimlerinden biri olan Sokrates, hayat\u0131n\u0131 insanlara tek bir \u015feyi anlatmaya adad\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBildi\u011fini sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyleri sorgula.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ona g\u00f6re insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131, bilmedi\u011fini bilmemesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn de \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir fikre inan\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir insana g\u00fcveniyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir yolu do\u011fru kabul ediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve sonra o d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin i\u00e7inde ya\u015famaya ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bilgisizlikten de\u011fil, kesinlik hissinden do\u011far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan emin olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda sorgulamay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sorgulama bitti\u011fi anda ise ger\u00e7eklik bulan\u0131kla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sokrates\u2019in en rahats\u0131z edici taraf\u0131 buydu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O cevap vermezdi, soru sorard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcr, kendi yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015ftirirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve bu y\u00fczden sevilmekten \u00e7ok, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan i\u00e7in en zor \u015fey,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

yan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn hayat\u0131m\u0131zda da benzer durumlar var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendimizi do\u011fru zannediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini yanl\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendi hik\u00e2yemizi ger\u00e7ek, di\u011ferlerini abart\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7ek, iki taraf\u0131n ortas\u0131nda bir yerde duruyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan en \u00e7ok kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken yan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihnimiz ger\u00e7e\u011fi aramak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyi korumak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir karar al\u0131r\u0131z, sonra o karar\u0131 savunacak nedenler \u00fcretiriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Birine g\u00fcveniriz, sonra onun hatalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Birine \u00f6fkeleniriz, sonra onun iyi taraflar\u0131n\u0131 unutmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bunlar\u0131n hepsi birer yan\u0131lg\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ama fark etmeden hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 haline gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden belki de en \u00f6nemli beceri \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendine \u015funu sorabilmek:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYa ben yan\u0131l\u0131yorsam?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu soru insan\u0131 zay\u0131flatmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tam tersine g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorgulayan insan geli\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emin olan insan ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yerinde sayar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ger\u00e7ek, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konforlu de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ama insan\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcten \u015fey, tam da o rahats\u0131z edici ger\u00e7eklerle y\u00fczle\u015fmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve belki de hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck olgunlu\u011fu \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her \u015feyi bildi\u011fini sanmaktan vazge\u00e7mek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6\u011frenmeye a\u00e7\u0131k kalmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve gerekti\u011finde kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceni bile sorgulayabilmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131s\u0131, yan\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026 \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7e\u011fi oldu\u011fu gibi de\u011fil, g\u00f6rmek istedi\u011fi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Belki de en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131m\u0131z tam olarak…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2420,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2419","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2419"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2421,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419\/revisions\/2421"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2419"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2419"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}