Ego ve Kimlik \u00dczerine<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131 asl\u0131nda oldu\u011fu ki\u015fi gibi de\u011fil, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek istedi\u011fi ki\u015fi gibi ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte tam burada ego devreye giriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ego \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey san\u0131l\u0131yor ama mesele egonun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mesele, egonun insan\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan bir s\u00fcre sonra karakterini de\u011fil, olu\u015fturdu\u011fu kimli\u011fi korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeliyim\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen hata yapmamal\u0131y\u0131m\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen kaybetmemeliyim\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen hep hakl\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131m\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve sonra ki\u015fi kendisini de\u011fil, zihninde yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 o sahte kimli\u011fi ya\u015famaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As\u0131l problem de burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ego b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e insan \u00f6\u011frenmeyi b\u0131rak\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6z\u00fcr dilemeyi zay\u0131fl\u0131k san\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ele\u015ftiriye kapan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendini geli\u015ftirmek yerine kendini savunuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa ger\u00e7ek olgunluk;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
hakl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek de\u011fil,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
gerekirse yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kabul edebilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimlik ise hayat boyu de\u011fi\u015fen bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131yla d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama baz\u0131 insanlar eski kimli\u011fine o kadar tutunur ki de\u011fi\u015fimi tehdit gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Halbuki bazen insan\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6nce eski \u201cbenini\u201d kaybetmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayatta en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlar; en \u00e7ok ba\u011f\u0131ranlar de\u011fil,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
egosunu kontrol edebilenlerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ego ve Kimlik \u00dczerine Bug\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131 asl\u0131nda oldu\u011fu ki\u015fi gibi de\u011fil, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek istedi\u011fi ki\u015fi gibi ya\u015f\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte tam…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2499,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2498","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2498"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2501,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2498\/revisions\/2501"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}