Bu hafta Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015femde \u015fu sorunun pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyoruz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Herkes hakl\u0131ysa, kim yanl\u0131\u015f?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Son y\u0131llarda dikkatimi \u00e7eken bir \u015fey var. Hangi konu a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131rsa a\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n, hangi tart\u0131\u015fma ya\u015fan\u0131rsa ya\u015fans\u0131n, hangi kriz g\u00fcndeme gelirse gelsin; herkes kendini hakl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda da b\u00f6yle, siyasette de b\u00f6yle, aile i\u00e7inde de b\u00f6yle, sosyal medyada da\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Taraflar de\u011fi\u015fiyor ama sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Herkes hakl\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peki o zaman kim yanl\u0131\u015f?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Asl\u0131nda sorunun kendisi burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fck problemlerinden biri, insanlar\u0131n ger\u00e7e\u011fi aramaktan \u00e7ok kendi do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131 savunuyor olmas\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir tart\u0131\u015fmaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7o\u011fu insan kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor. Amac\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek de\u011fil, ikna etmek. Dinlemek de\u011fil, cevap vermek. Sonuca ula\u015fmak de\u011fil, kendi pozisyonunu korumak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hal b\u00f6yle olunca ortaya ilgin\u00e7 bir tablo \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir olay ya\u015fan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir taraf ma\u011fdur oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Di\u011fer taraf haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc taraf yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc taraf ger\u00e7eklerin gizlendi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve sonu\u00e7 olarak herkes kendince hakl\u0131 bir gerek\u00e7e \u00fcretiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de sorun tam burada yat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hakl\u0131 olmak ile do\u011fru olmak ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hakl\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ki\u015finin kendi penceresinden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 sonu\u00e7tur. Do\u011fruluk ise b\u00fct\u00fcn pencereleri g\u00f6rebilmeyi gerektirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn toplum olarak en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuz \u015fey yeni fikirler de\u011fil, farkl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131na tahamm\u00fcl edebilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan sadece kendi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merkeze koydu\u011funda do\u011fal olarak hakl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ancak kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini de dinledi\u011finde tablo de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne yaz\u0131k ki \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck hastal\u0131klar\u0131ndan biri de budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nsanlar bilgiye hi\u00e7 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar yak\u0131n ama birbirini anlamaya hi\u00e7 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar uzak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bu y\u00fczden tart\u0131\u015fmalar b\u00fcy\u00fcyor ama \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sesler y\u00fckseliyor ama ortak ak\u0131l zay\u0131fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hakl\u0131lar \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor ama sorunlar azalm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de art\u0131k \u015fu soruyu sorman\u0131n zaman\u0131 geldi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n sonunda hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak m\u0131 daha de\u011ferli, yoksa do\u011fruya biraz daha yakla\u015fmak m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkesin hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fu yerde \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kimse kazanmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sadece kutupla\u015fma kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve bazen bir toplumun en b\u00fcy\u00fck yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131, herkesin kendini tamamen hakl\u0131 g\u00f6rmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bu hafta Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015femde \u015fu sorunun pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyoruz: Herkes hakl\u0131ysa, kim yanl\u0131\u015f? Son y\u0131llarda dikkatimi \u00e7eken bir \u015fey var.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2542,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2541"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2541\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2543,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2541\/revisions\/2543"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2542"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}