Bu hafta Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015femde \u015fu soruyu masaya yat\u0131r\u0131yoruz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ba\u015far\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bu soruya verilen cevaplar genellikle birbirine benzer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130yi bir kariyer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Y\u00fcksek gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fczel bir ev.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130yi bir araba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Toplum taraf\u0131ndan takdir g\u00f6rmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Terfi etmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha fazla kazanmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha fazla sahip olmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peki ba\u015far\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten bunlardan m\u0131 ibaret?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Net konu\u015fal\u0131m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 sadece sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6l\u00e7meye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, onu kaybetme korkusuyla ya\u015famaya da ba\u015flar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131da arayan insan\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu da d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullara ba\u011fl\u0131 hale gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa hayat bize defalarca farkl\u0131 \u00f6rnekler g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7ok para kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde huzursuz olan insanlar var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7ok tan\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde yaln\u0131z hisseden insanlar var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kariyer basamaklar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0131zla \u00e7\u0131kan ama ailesini, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya kendisini geride b\u0131rakan insanlar var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z insanlar de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama hepsinin mutlu oldu\u011funu da s\u00f6yleyemiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Demek ki ba\u015far\u0131 ile mutluluk ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131 ile huzur da ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131 ile anlam duygusu da ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte tam bu noktada kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormam\u0131z gerekiyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 kim tan\u0131ml\u0131yor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Biz mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yoksa ba\u015fkalar\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7o\u011fu insan hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc kendi hedeflerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 kabul etti\u011fi hayat\u0131 ya\u015famak i\u00e7in harc\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha fazla kazanmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha y\u00fcksek bir pozisyona ula\u015fmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha \u00e7ok takdir edilmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bunlar\u0131n hepsi de\u011ferli olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama sadece bunlara odaklanan bir ba\u015far\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 eksik kalmaya mahk\u00fbmdur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015far\u0131 sadece ula\u015fmakla ilgili de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ayn\u0131 zamanda nas\u0131l ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nla da ilgilidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir hedefe giderken karakterini kaybettiysen\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevdiklerini ihmal ettiysen\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u00fckettiysen\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her sabah istemedi\u011fin bir hayata uyan\u0131yorsan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Orada yeniden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de ba\u015far\u0131, herkesin alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir hayat kurmak de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7ine d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde huzurla bakabildi\u011fi bir hayat kurabilmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de ba\u015far\u0131, s\u00fcrekli daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 istemek de\u011fil; sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferini de g\u00f6rebilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de ba\u015far\u0131, sadece zirveye \u00e7\u0131kmak de\u011fil; \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n yerde insan kalabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn ba\u015far\u0131 hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ok konu\u015fuyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sonu\u00e7larla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa hayat\u0131n sonunda insanlar ne kadar kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlayacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Net konu\u015fal\u0131m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131 bir makam de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir banka hesab\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir unvan de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131, insan\u0131n kendi de\u011ferlerinden vazge\u00e7meden hedeflerine y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve belki de ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n en do\u011fru tan\u0131m\u0131 \u015fudur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015far\u0131, gece ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011funda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayattan pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duymamakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bu hafta Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m k\u00f6\u015femde \u015fu soruyu masaya yat\u0131r\u0131yoruz: Ba\u015far\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten nedir? Bu soruya verilen cevaplar genellikle birbirine benzer. \u0130yi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2561,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2560","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2560","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2560"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2560\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2562,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2560\/revisions\/2562"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2560"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2560"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2560"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}