Hayatta baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r; alk\u0131\u015f\u0131 sever, \u00f6vg\u00fcy\u00fc sever, ilginin merkezinde olmay\u0131 sever. Ancak konu sorumluluk almaya, hata kabul etmeye ya da ger\u00e7ek bir eylem ortaya koymaya geldi\u011finde sessizle\u015fir. \u0130\u015fte tam da burada narsisizm ile eylem aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki kendini g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Narsisizm sadece kendini be\u011fenmek de\u011fildir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnme \u00e7abas\u0131d\u0131r. Kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnme iste\u011fidir. Bu y\u00fczden ele\u015ftiri kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda savunmaya ge\u00e7er, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ihtimali olan ad\u0131mlardan ise uzak durur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc eylem risk ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir fikir ortaya koyarsan\u0131z ele\u015ftirilirsiniz. Bir karar al\u0131rsan\u0131z sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na katlan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bir ad\u0131m atarsan\u0131z hata yapabilirsiniz. Oysa sessizlik g\u00fcvenlidir. Sessiz kalan, hesap vermek zorunda kalmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne ilgin\u00e7tir ki, en \u00e7ok konu\u015fanlar her zaman en \u00e7ok \u00fcretenler de\u011fildir. Kimi zaman en b\u00fcy\u00fck iddialar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck cesaret saklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcven, s\u00fcrekli kendini anlatmak de\u011fildir. Gerekti\u011finde susup dinleyebilmek, gerekti\u011finde de sorumluluk al\u0131p harekete ge\u00e7ebilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Narsistik bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u201cBen nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm?\u201d sorusunu sorar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Olgun bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ise \u201cBen ne katk\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirim?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda bunu g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda, aile i\u00e7inde, arkada\u015fl\u0131klarda ve hatta sosyal medyada\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsanlar art\u0131k s\u00f6zlerden \u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015flara bak\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karakter, konu\u015furken de\u011fil; karar verirken ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de kendimize \u015fu soruyu sorman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sessizli\u011fimiz ger\u00e7ekten bilgelikten mi geliyor, yoksa sorumluluk almaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131n rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey s\u00f6ylemler de\u011fil, eylemlerdir. Ve bazen en y\u00fcksek ses, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmayanlar\u0131n sessizli\u011fidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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