Hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6\u011fretmenleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konfor de\u011fil, zorluklard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan, her \u015fey yolundayken karakterini de\u011fil, rahat\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirir. As\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ise planlar\u0131n bozuldu\u011fu, umutlar\u0131n s\u0131nand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve vazge\u00e7menin en kolay se\u00e7enek gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc d\u00f6nemlerde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zor zamanlar sadece dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 test etmez; insan\u0131n kim oldu\u011funu da ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp hayat\u0131m\u0131zda iz b\u0131rakan insanlara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ortak bir \u00f6zellik g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Hi\u00e7biri d\u00fcz bir yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek bug\u00fcnk\u00fc h\u00e2line gelmedi. Her biri kay\u0131plar ya\u015fad\u0131, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc, defalarca yeniden ba\u015flad\u0131. Onlar\u0131 farkl\u0131 yapan \u015fey, hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015fmemeleri de\u011fil; her d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcklerinde aya\u011fa kalkmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeleriydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Topra\u011fa at\u0131lan bir tohumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7ine g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcr. \u00dczerine tonlarca toprak gelir. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kaybolmu\u015f gibidir. Oysa tam da o karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00e7atlar, k\u00f6k salar ve ilk filizini verir. E\u011fer o bask\u0131 olmasa, o tohum hi\u00e7bir zaman a\u011faca d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015femez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan da b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bazen hayat bizi istemedi\u011fimiz yerlere g\u00f6mer. \u0130\u015fimizi kaybederiz, sevdiklerimizi kaybederiz, emeklerimizin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alamay\u0131z, bekledi\u011fimiz kap\u0131lar y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze kapan\u0131r. O anlarda her \u015feyin bitti\u011fini zannederiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa belki de hayat, bizi bitirmiyor; b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyordur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7, zorluk ya\u015famamaktan de\u011fil, zorluklarla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmekten do\u011far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Olgunluk ise ya\u015f almakla de\u011fil, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ndan anlam \u00e7\u0131karabilmekle kazan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn sahip oldu\u011funuz sab\u0131r, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte verdi\u011finiz m\u00fccadelelerin eseridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn daha sakin karar verebiliyorsan\u0131z, bunun nedeni ge\u00e7mi\u015fte acele kararlar\u0131n bedelini \u00f6demi\u015f olman\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 daha iyi anlayabiliyorsan\u0131z, bunun sebebi bir zamanlar sizin de anla\u015f\u0131lmaya ihtiya\u00e7 duyman\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi\u00e7bir ac\u0131 bo\u015fa ya\u015fanmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yeter ki o ac\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde bir ders, bir anlam ve yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 arayabilelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zor zamanlar insan\u0131 ya k\u0131rar ya da in\u015fa eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aradaki fark, ya\u015fanan olaylar de\u011fil; o olaylara verdi\u011fimiz tepkidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131 s\u00fcrekli \u201cNeden ben?\u201d diye sorgulamak yerine, \u201cBu bana ne \u00f6\u011fretiyor?\u201d diye sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her f\u0131rt\u0131na y\u0131kmak i\u00e7in gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Baz\u0131lar\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f dallar\u0131 kopar\u0131p daha sa\u011flam k\u00f6kler olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fccadele belki de yar\u0131n kuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayat\u0131n en sa\u011flam temeli olacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki bug\u00fcn yoruldunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki vazge\u00e7meyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki emeklerinizin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissediyorsunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama unutmay\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
En g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc a\u011fa\u00e7lar en sert r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar\u0131n esti\u011fi topraklarda yeti\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve en sa\u011flam karakterler, en zor d\u00f6nemlerin i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7erek \u015fekillenir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6\u011fretmenleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konfor de\u011fil, zorluklard\u0131r. \u0130nsan, her \u015fey yolundayken karakterini de\u011fil, rahat\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirir. As\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ise…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2596,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2595","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi","category-ozgun-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2595","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2595"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2595\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2597,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2595\/revisions\/2597"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2595"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2595"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2595"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}