Bir zamanlar insanlar mutlu olmak i\u00e7in ya\u015fard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn ise mutlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gitti\u011fimiz yerler, yedi\u011fimiz yemekler, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hediyeler, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tatiller, hatta bazen en \u00f6zel anlar\u0131m\u0131z bile \u00f6nce kameraya, sonra hayata d\u00f6n\u00fcyor. Payla\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar sanki ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f gibi hissediliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa sosyal medyada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz hayatlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu, ger\u00e7e\u011fin tamam\u0131 de\u011fil; \u00f6zenle se\u00e7ilmi\u015f birka\u00e7 saniyesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimse uykusuz ge\u00e7en gecelerini payla\u015fm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimse kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, bor\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131, aile i\u00e7indeki sessizlikleri ya da yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sergilemiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k herkes hayat\u0131n\u0131n vitriniyle ilgileniyor. Depoyu ise kimse g\u00f6rmek istemiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte tam da bu y\u00fczden bir\u00e7ok insan, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n en parlak anlar\u0131n\u0131 kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n en zor d\u00f6nemleriyle k\u0131yasl\u0131yor. Ve bu k\u0131yaslama, fark edilmeden insan\u0131n kendine olan g\u00fcvenini a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa mutluluk bir foto\u011fraf de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir filtre hi\u00e7 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutluluk; huzurla i\u00e7ilen bir kahvede, \u00e7ocukla edilen samimi bir sohbette, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 uyan\u0131lan bir sabahta, sevdiklerinin yan\u0131nda hissedilen g\u00fcvende sakl\u0131d\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu payla\u015f\u0131lmaz ama en derin mutluluklar da zaten sessiz ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek hayat kusurludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Planlar bozulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan yorulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hata yapar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yeniden ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve tam da bu y\u00fczden ger\u00e7ektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de art\u0131k kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBen ger\u00e7ekten mutlu muyum, yoksa mutlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm i\u00e7in mi rahat hissediyorum?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu sorunun cevab\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n be\u011fenisinde de\u011fil; kendi vicdan\u0131m\u0131zda gizlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutluluk, alk\u0131\u015f toplamak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutluluk; kimse izlemezken de huzurlu kalabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ger\u00e7ek hayat, ekran\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda akmaya devam ediyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Onu ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak ise tamamen bizim elimizde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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