Bazen bir \u015feyleri do\u011fru yapmak i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Olmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plan bozulur, hesap tutmaz, bekledi\u011fimiz sonu\u00e7 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ilk yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey bellidir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hata yapt\u0131k.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa tarihe bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bug\u00fcn kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 baz\u0131 \u00f6nemli ke\u015fiflerin ve geli\u015fmelerin arkas\u0131nda tam da b\u00f6yle anlar oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Alexander Fleming\u2019in laboratuvar\u0131nda ya\u015fanan beklenmedik bir durum, penisilinin ke\u015ffine giden yolu a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mikrodalga f\u0131r\u0131n\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, bir m\u00fchendisin cebindeki \u00e7ikolatan\u0131n erimesini fark etmesi \u00f6nemli bir ipucu oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vulkanize kau\u00e7uk, planlanm\u0131\u015f kusursuz bir deneyin de\u011fil, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131kla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen bir s\u00fcrecin sonucunda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yani bazen insan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan \u015fey, planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil; planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ihtimaldir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n As\u0131l mesele de burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Herkes bir hata yapabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama herkes hatan\u0131n i\u00e7indeki f\u0131rsat\u0131 g\u00f6remez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yaln\u0131zca sonuca bak\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOlmad\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKaybettim.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa belki de do\u011fru soru \u015fu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBuradan ne \u00f6\u011frendim?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayatta da b\u00f6yle de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen yanl\u0131\u015f bir i\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi bizi y\u0131llard\u0131r arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z mesle\u011fe g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen biten bir ili\u015fki, kendimizi yeniden tan\u0131mam\u0131za neden oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fumuz bir giri\u015fim, neyi yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmemizi sa\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen de y\u0131llarca do\u011fru sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu fark etmek, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki en \u00f6nemli d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Elbette her hata bizi ba\u015far\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde gizli bir f\u0131rsat da yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Baz\u0131 hatalar ger\u00e7ekten sadece hatad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama insan\u0131 farkl\u0131la\u015ft\u0131ran \u015fey, hatas\u0131z ya\u015famak de\u011fil; hatas\u0131ndan ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00fcrprizlerinden biri budur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey, do\u011fru yolda ilerlerken de\u011fil, yolumuz yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131kla de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Net Konu\u015fay\u0131m\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayatta her \u015feyi planlayamay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen yanl\u0131\u015f kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7alar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen yanl\u0131\u015f karar veririz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen hi\u00e7 istemedi\u011fimiz bir sonu\u00e7la kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama o an geldi\u011finde hik\u00e2yenin bitti\u011fine karar vermek zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar yeni yollar a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Baz\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar do\u011furur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve baz\u0131 tesad\u00fcfler, y\u0131llarca yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z planlardan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck sonu\u00e7lar yaratabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de mesele hi\u00e7 hata yapmamak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mesele, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatan\u0131n bize ne anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duyabilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bazen bir \u015feyleri do\u011fru yapmak i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131z. Olmaz. Plan bozulur, hesap tutmaz, bekledi\u011fimiz sonu\u00e7 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaz. 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