\u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7ok \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eskiden bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131 sava\u015flar, hastal\u0131klar, k\u0131tl\u0131klar ve a\u011f\u0131r ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7ebiliyordu. Bug\u00fcn ise teknoloji sayesinde daha uzun ya\u015f\u0131yor, daha kolay seyahat ediyor, daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kuruyor ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fte krallar\u0131n bile sahip olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 imk\u00e2nlara birka\u00e7 dokunu\u015fla ula\u015fabiliyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama bug\u00fcn size ba\u015fka bir soru sormak istiyorum:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Daha uzun ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Peki ger\u00e7ekten daha \u00e7ok ya\u015f\u0131yor muyuz?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc uzun ya\u015famakla hayat\u0131 dolu dolu ya\u015famak ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eskiden insanlar belki daha az \u015feye sahipti ama sahip olduklar\u0131 an\u0131n i\u00e7inde daha fazla kal\u0131yorlard\u0131. Bir sohbet i\u00e7in telefonlar\u0131n\u0131 masaya koymalar\u0131 gerekmiyordu. Bir manzaray\u0131 izlerken onu payla\u015facaklar\u0131 bir ekran aram\u0131yorlard\u0131. Bir dostla oturduklar\u0131nda ak\u0131llar\u0131 ba\u015fka bir bildirimde de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn ise hayat\u0131m\u0131zda inan\u0131lmaz bir h\u0131z var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sabah alarm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Toplant\u0131lar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Telefonlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mesajlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E-postalar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sosyal medya.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trafik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ko\u015fturmaca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendimize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birka\u00e7 saat\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sonra uyku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ertesi g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 d\u00f6ng\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen bir haftan\u0131n nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini anlam\u0131yoruz. Sonra aylar ge\u00e7iyor. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve bir g\u00fcn d\u00f6n\u00fcp bak\u0131yoruz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBen bu kadar y\u0131l ne yapt\u0131m?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de modern insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck problemi zaman\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Zaman\u0131n fark\u0131na varmadan ya\u015famak.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tarihte insanlar hayat\u0131n k\u0131sa oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok daha \u00e7\u0131plak bi\u00e7imde biliyordu. Stoac\u0131lar \u201cMemento Mori\u201d diyerek insana \u00f6l\u00fcml\u00fc oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn ise \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f gibiyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sanki hep vaktimiz var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSonra yapar\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cEmekli olunca gezerim.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c\u00c7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcn.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBiraz daha para kazanay\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c\u0130\u015fim biraz rahatlas\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c\u015eu bor\u00e7lar bitsin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c\u015eu hedefe ula\u015fay\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve sonra hayat\u0131n kendisi aradan sessizce ge\u00e7ip gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131m\u0131z \u015fu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat\u0131 ya\u015famay\u0131, hayat\u0131n \u015fartlar\u0131 d\u00fczeldi\u011finde ba\u015flayacak bir \u015fey san\u0131yoruz.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa hayat \u015fartlar\u0131n tamamen d\u00fczeldi\u011fi g\u00fcn ba\u015flam\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat zaten \u015fu an.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7ocu\u011fumuzla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131sa bir sohbet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E\u015fimizle i\u00e7ti\u011fimiz bir kahve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla etti\u011fimiz bir kahkaha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sabah yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z spor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dinledi\u011fimiz bir \u015fark\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc plans\u0131zca \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir yol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir kitab\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fimiz bir c\u00fcmle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fcne\u015fin y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze vurdu\u011fu birka\u00e7 dakikal\u0131k sessizlik\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bunlar hayat\u0131n kendisi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de mesele daha uzun ya\u015famak de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamana daha fazla hayat s\u0131\u011fd\u0131rabilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc 80 y\u0131l ya\u015fay\u0131p sadece takvim yapraklar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama 60 y\u0131l ya\u015fay\u0131p 80 y\u0131ll\u0131k hik\u00e2ye biriktirmek de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aradaki fark ya\u015f de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fark\u0131ndal\u0131k.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Net konu\u015fay\u0131m;<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat\u0131 s\u00fcrekli bir sonraki a\u015famaya ertelemeyelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daha \u00e7ok para kazanaca\u011f\u0131z diye bug\u00fcn\u00fcn huzurunu,<\/p>\n\n\n\n daha iyi bir kariyer yapaca\u011f\u0131z diye ailemizi,<\/p>\n\n\n\n daha uygun zaman\u0131 bekliyoruz diye hayallerimizi,<\/p>\n\n\n\n daha \u00e7ok \u015fey ba\u015faraca\u011f\u0131z diye kendimizi ihmal etmeyelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ironisi \u015fu olabilir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gelece\u011fimizi kurmak i\u00e7in o kadar \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz ki, gelece\u011fe ula\u015fana kadar bug\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famay\u0131 unutuyoruz.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de mesele daha uzun ya\u015famak de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayata daha \u00e7ok hayat katmak.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7ok \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fti. Eskiden bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131 sava\u015flar, hastal\u0131klar, k\u0131tl\u0131klar ve a\u011f\u0131r ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7ebiliyordu. 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