29 Ocak 2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sen de\u011fi\u015firsen hayat de\u011fi\u015fir, d\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fir ve g\u00fczelle\u015fir.
D\u0131\u015far\u0131da \u00f6yle g\u00fczel bir hayat var ki ak\u0131p giden ve bir daha geri gelmeyecek; haberin var m\u0131? Tek bir dosta veya ili\u015fkiye saplanmaktan bamba\u015fka bir hayat. Ailenden g\u00f6rmen gereken ilgiyi ve sevgiyi ya da di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan g\u00f6rmen gereken arkada\u015fl\u0131k ve dostluk sevgisini tek bir ki\u015fiden beklemek ne kadar do\u011fru, sordun mu hi\u00e7 kendine? Anneni kahvalt\u0131ya en son ne zaman g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcn? Babanla tavla oynad\u0131n m\u0131 hi\u00e7? Sevgi bir ki\u015fiden beklenecek kadar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u015fey de\u011fil! Bu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa haddini bildirecek tek ki\u015fi sensin. D\u00fcnyadaki ilk cinayet olan; Habil ile Kabil! Nefis ki bu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, y\u00fcz\u00fcnden karde\u015fini \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeye itmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cK\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k bir g\u00fcvenin, kuma\u015f\u0131 yemesi gibidir; insan\u0131 yer bitirir!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu tuzaklara dikkat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 isteyerek h\u0131rs yaparsan, elindekini de kaybedebilirsin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Senden ak\u0131ll\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n, uyan\u0131k bir arkada\u015f\u0131na uyup elindeki t\u00fcm birikimini, hi\u00e7 anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir i\u015fe yat\u0131r\u0131p, t\u00fcm birikimini kapt\u0131rabilirsin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n olaylardan tecr\u00fcbeler \u00e7\u0131karmazsan ayn\u0131 hatalar\u0131 tekrarlay\u0131p, kendini t\u00fcketebilirsin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015eik\u00e2yet\u00e7i olmak yerine tamir eden olmay\u0131 tercih etmezsen, ele\u015ftirmek yerine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmezsen, karanl\u0131kta \u0131\u015f\u0131k yakmay\u0131 asla beceremezsin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan bir ara\u00e7 olsayd\u0131, yak\u0131t\u0131 motivasyon olurdu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her insan\u0131n zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131 iki \u015fey vard\u0131r;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendi de\u011ferini, kendine hat\u0131rlatmak! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendi kendini motive edebilmek!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu fani d\u00fcnya da fani \u015feylere \u00fcz\u00fclerek, kafaya takarak o kadar olumsuz \u015feyler ya\u015f\u0131yoruz ki. Yaln\u0131z kalma korkusuyla hi\u00e7 istemedi\u011fin bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fayabilirsin, herkes beni onaylas\u0131n diye yanl\u0131\u015f ad\u0131mlar atabilirsin, yeterli g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir karaktere b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcp rol oynayan o kadar insan var ki.. Asl\u0131nda iyi niyetle yap\u0131lan bu se\u00e7imlerin sonucu k\u00f6t\u00fcye vard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ben onun i\u00e7in yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m der ve onu su\u00e7lars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k ve \u00f6zveri iki farkl\u0131 kavramd\u0131r. Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k, tek tarafl\u0131d\u0131r, y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r; kendinden \u00f6d\u00fcn verdiklerin, kendin i\u00e7in yapmad\u0131klar\u0131nd\u0131r. \u00d6zveri ise tek tarafl\u0131 olsa bile zarars\u0131z ve gurur vericidir; g\u00f6n\u00fclden yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kime yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n, niye yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6nemsizdir, g\u00fczeldir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayattaki en zor durumlardan baz\u0131 \u00f6rnekler; ertelenmi\u015f bir hayat ve ertelenmi\u015f bir ama\u00e7, kabullenilmi\u015f bir \u00e7aresizlik, erken ya\u015fta karamsarl\u0131k, ge\u00e7 ya\u015fta gelen pi\u015fmanl\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Biz insanlar do\u011fam\u0131z gere\u011fi hep bir \u015feylere ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k hissi, acele karar verme duygusu, ge\u00e7 kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ne var ise erteleme duygusunu ya\u015far\u0131z. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi pi\u015fmanl\u0131k sebebidir. Evlenmek istiyorum ve ya\u015f\u0131m ge\u00e7ti diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n biriyle yanl\u0131\u015f bir evlilik yapabilirsin veya dil \u00f6\u011frenmek istedin ama ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7ti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp vazge\u00e7ebilirsin. Hayallerinin pe\u015finden gitmek i\u00e7in asla ge\u00e7 de\u011fil. Hem Allah kuluna vermeyece\u011fi \u015feyin hayalini kudurmazm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayatta herkesin bir amac\u0131 olmal\u0131. Amac\u0131n ve oldu\u011fun yerin de\u011ferini bileceksin. De\u011fi\u015feceksin zaman zaman y\u0131k\u0131lacak, d\u00fc\u015fecek kalkacaks\u0131n, ne kadar s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015farsan ya\u015fa insan ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden, insan olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Herkese g\u00fczel bir g\u00fcn dilerim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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