16 \u015eubat 2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimsenin S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc Kesmeyin ve Tamamlamay\u0131n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00f6z kesmek ya da tamamlamak, genellikle h\u0131zl\u0131 konu\u015fan kimselerde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bu durumun enerji t\u00fcketti\u011finden ve zihni me\u015fgul etti\u011finden bahsedilir. \u0130leti\u015fimi olduk\u00e7a zedeleyen ve kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakilerin bize olan sayg\u0131 ve sevgilerini azaltan bir durum oldu\u011fundan yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 tavsiye ediliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130leti\u015fimi olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyen ba\u015fl\u0131ca etmenler k\u0131saca \u015fu \u015fekildedir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kibirlenmek, y\u00fcksekten bakmak: Ki\u015finin kendini di\u011fer insanlardan \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcp, onlara tepeden bakmas\u0131 ister istemez konu\u015fmalar\u0131na da yans\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fazla \u00e7ekingen davran\u0131p kendini yetersiz g\u00f6rmek: Y\u00fcksekten bakmak kadar itici olmasa da kendini yetersiz g\u00f6rmek de ileti\u015fimi olumsuz etkileyen bir tav\u0131rd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sesli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor gibi l\u00fczumsuz konu\u015fmak: \u201cAnlatt\u0131klar\u0131m kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 ilgilendiriyor mu?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden, kar\u015f\u0131dakine konu\u015fma hakk\u0131 tan\u0131madan, s\u00fcrekli laf keserek, ilgili ya da ilgisiz hep konu\u015fmak isteyen ki\u015filer inan\u0131lmaz antipatik bir izlenime sahip olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0131r tutmamak ve dedikoduculuk: Ki\u015filerin veya i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zeline dair s\u00f6ylenmemesi gereken konular\u0131 uluorta konu\u015fan veya \u201cAman, kimseye s\u00f6yleme!\u201d diyerek herkese anlatan ki\u015filer, ileti\u015fimde hep kaybederler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0131k\u00e7a pot k\u0131rmak, gaf yapmak: Genellikle bu t\u00fcr insanlar s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ne\u015felendirip g\u00fcld\u00fcrmek iste\u011fiyle doludurlar ve asl\u0131nda bu tavr\u0131n psikolojik yap\u0131s\u0131 \u201cBeni sevin.\u201d \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bu nedenle kelimeleri \u00f6zenle se\u00e7mezler ve pot \u00fczerine pot k\u0131rarlar ama \u00e7o\u011fu kez fark\u0131na bile varmazlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00fcrekli \u015fakala\u015fma iste\u011fi ve alay etme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 hafife almak, y\u00fczlerine kar\u015f\u0131 veya arkalar\u0131ndan i\u011fneli s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerle ve alay ederek konu\u015fmak, ileti\u015fimdeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck kay\u0131plardan biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Konu\u015fan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmek: \u201cBen senin ne diyece\u011fini biliyorum\u201d duygusu vererek, her f\u0131rsatta laf kesmek, sayg\u0131 ve terbiye d\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. \u00dcstelik, s\u00f6z\u00fc kesilen ki\u015fide \u201cBana \u00f6nem vermiyor ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcms\u00fcyor.\u201d duygular\u0131 da olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Samimiyetsizlik, yapmac\u0131kl\u0131k: Ki\u015fi ne kadar ustaca \u201cdo\u011fal\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyi oynasa bile, insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu onun asl\u0131nda rol yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u201c-m\u0131\u015f gibi\u201d davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve samimiyetsiz oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Herkese g\u00fczel bir g\u00fcn dilerim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
16 \u015eubat 2024 Kimsenin S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc Kesmeyin ve Tamamlamay\u0131n S\u00f6z kesmek ya da tamamlamak, genellikle h\u0131zl\u0131 konu\u015fan kimselerde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bu durumun…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":594,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim-bilgi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=593"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/593\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":595,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/593\/revisions\/595"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/594"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kayaismail.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}